I jeopardize my chances with men

Today when I noticed the 25 year old was online, I instant messaged him. I told him I wanted to hang out again. His response was simply, "let's do it." Well, that is great and all, but now I don't know if he would have taken the initiative or not. Why do I feel the need to manipulate relationships? I have no idea. I'm not alone though. They have entire movies and books about the topic. Ever watch "He's just not that into you"? Funny, but sadly it portrays what so many women do to ruin relationships. Oh well. He's younger and shorter than me. If it doesn't work out, then it wasn't meant to be.